Durable Power of Attorney–Why You Need it And Why You Don’t!

This particular little story is from my own experience and so some of you may have different experiences but this may help anyway. I find it important to note that with our ideal presence of mind, in 2007, my mom, husband and I all set down with our attorney at the time to draw up our wishes for medical treatment and what to do in case if resuscitation is necessary but full recovery is not possible, etc. So we have created our advanced durable power of attorney for each of us, had it signed, sealed, and saved.

Then my mom got ill in February 2014 and every single hospital she went to (4 hospitals) and every single skilled nursing facilities she was sent to (2) had a hard copy of my mothers advanced durable power of attorney given to them with her making me her conservator–that is the responsible party to make decision over every step and every medication. Logical, since I am a medical professional in the area of research. But then I noticed that with the exception of a single skilled nursing facility, the advanced durable power of attorney was completely ignored as if it did not exist.

Doctors prescribed medications for all kinds of illnesses my mom did not have; they did not ask for permission, they pulled various legal RIESE 5150 and then 5250 on her so they could override my advanced durable power of attorney so they can force medications against her and my wishes and push into her whatever medications they wanted –and even restricted any and all communication between doctors and family. In some places meeting the doctor was impossible let alone having a few questions answered.

Of course they completely messed my mother up and she passed away on the 10th of April in 2014.

Now I am not a wuss so when it comes to inquiries and demands, you can hear my voice loud and clear but this was a show stopper for me. I am a medical professional and still I cannot stop clueless actions on the part of doctors and hospitals? How is that possible? Well, I found out how…

I am just now going through the medical records of my mom from each hospital and in one I find on top of the copy of my mom’s advanced durable power of attorney a piece of paper highlighting that my mom does not have an advanced durable power of attorneyThis is why!

You need to know this! You need to know that someone in your family has to be after these “bastards” at every step of the way because they are as clueless as they come! I used the term “bastards” because one may have good intentions but after all if the chicken crossed the road and died, it died… intentions don’t matter. The outcome matters when it comes to medical treatment.

My mother died in the hands of such clueless acts. The only safe place for my mom was a skilled nursing facility where she hated to be since she was plucked in there from the psych ward after the 5250 where they destroyed her mind making her symptoms appear as if she had schizophrenia and Alzheimer’s (which she did not have) but at this place she took no medicines and in 3 days she started to come out of under the affects of all those terrible drugs. She also started to realize that she was in a mental institute. She wanted out of there and she let that be known to everyone. She kept on saying that she would rather die than stay here. And so she was evaluated by two psychologists there, both clearing her from mental disorders, only to be killed by a clueless doctor in the hospital she went for treatment of her heart, who… you guessed it… had ignored not only the advanced durable power of attorney but also the allergy band on my mother’s arm for serotonin.

The medicine the doctor gave her was Namenda, a drug in the serotonergic/dopanergic family that is an antagonist. Antagonist implies, as the name states “make it more excitable” and so what it does it actually increases the serotonin and dopamine receptors’ ability to accept more serotonin… hence increasing the substance my  mother was allergic to. One of the side effects of this drug listed among the side effects is TIA (“Nervous system side effects have included dizziness (7%) and headache (6%). Transient ischemic attack,… “, which is a stroke that lasts for a short time. In fact, my mom got one but the clot hit at the wrong place and her throat got paralyzed, never to be resolved so the TIA was really a full blown stroke. She died from the clueless medical system.

She also died from a clueless doctor whom I asked after I was finally able to corner at the ICU if she knew that my mom had advanced durable power of attorney. She said no. I also asked if she knew my mother was allergic to serotonin. She said “well the pharmacy catches interactions..” I said no.. no interaction. One drug that you prescribed, Namenda, that increases serotonin in the brain and she is allergic to serotonin. She first told me it was not serotonin then I pulled up on the internet on my phone and showed her that it is so then she gave me a big discussion “well you know it is serotonergic/dopanergic.. blah blah blah..” I asked her if she knew she was actually talking to a neuroscientist researcher… I also asked if she knew what dopamine and serotonin were and what they were used for the brain.. she said “no“…

I did tell her to go back to school!

Yes! Sometimes you just need to act like a total barbaric to get through to doctors, hospitals, and pharmacies to save the life of your loved ones. I failed but I hope to help by changing the system as much as I can. Please you do your share and create an advanced durable power of attorney and put it under every single doctor’s nose!

Angela

 

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The Magic Pill – Rush to Nowhere

This little article is not actually about clueless doctors but rather about clueless people. Do not take offense. No one is clueless without reason but everyone is being mislead by money-making industries that tell us to cook things faster, eat them faster, dump weight faster, get well faster… we are all heading in the direction of “faster” but where exactly are we going so fast? And do we get there?

I am reading a book titled Fat Chance by Robert H. Lustig, M.D., M.S.L. There is also a video on the subject called Sugar: The Bitter Truth ; the video is long and hard to follow if you are not attuned to biochemistry and metabolism. The link is provided for your interest but here I want to discuss the book he wrote on the same subject, which is with me all the time; I treasure it like gold. I would like to spend a little time on introducing just one subject the book covers, which is close to all of our hearts since we all have been told to take antioxidants, vitamins, etc., nearly all of our lives–in fact even before since our mother’s were likely told to take prenatal vitamins throughout their pregnancy. There are various research articles for scientists to know why taking vitamins is not a good idea but most of those articles are not available to the public. This book, however, is available at a very reasonable price (cheap price for a book worth gold in my opinion) and it contains the summary of all of the current wisdom about vitamins and antioxidants. So I would like to talk a little bit about our habits of the magic pill for everything.

The magic pill phenomenon is visible everywhere. I run two groups on Facebook, one for migraine prevention and treatment and one about clueless doctors. The one for migraine prevention is my favorite in terms of how many people are simply not capable to envision the world without some magic pill. They would rather try every single pill on the planet, even if it hurts some of their organs, just to see if their migraines go away even if taking migraines away is as simple as providing the right minerals to the brain cells to live and produce voltage. And these minerals are available already in everyone’s kitchen free.

There is a section in the book Fat Chance that is talking about micro-nutrients and a very small one-paragraph section titled: I used to Care, but Now I Take a Pill for That… And this is what I would like to talk about. Because other than my husband and I, I don’t actually know a single person who is not taking some form of vitamins or nutrients. I must admit, I do get Vitamin B-12 injections because my body is not able to absorb that vitamin from food but I had my blood tested to be sure. And for sure I cannot do it alone, so I must have it in other ways.

How many of you who take vitamins and antioxidants have been tested to see if you need them? Don’t answer… I know what the answer is. It is very close to zero albeit some of you may actually have gone ahead with the simple blood test and I applaud you for that. This little article is for those who have not taken that test and who see an advertisement for a new vitamin or supplement product and run to try.

About 30 years ago, Lusting states, our health as a nation (and we are talking US only in this case) has declined tremendously. Just at about that time vitamins and micro-nutrients have become popular. They were added to milk (vitamin D), added to cereals (all vitamins), some were even added to sport drinks (though some of that was pulled already since they hurt people). According to Lustig, currently about 50% of the people in the US takes some form of vitamin, and our nation has never been this unhealthy in history. In fact “high-dose Vitamin E has been linked to increased rates of mortality” (page 153). Vitamin D is one of those vitamins that all you need to do is go out to the sun for 15 minutes a day before the sun rays burn and without sun protection–so early morning before 10 am or afternoon after 3 or 4 pm–and your body will get all the vitamins it needs–unless of course you have a health condition showing that you must take it as pills since your body cannot create it and you are deficient–a blood test.

Another problem that is often discussed but few truly can relate to is fiber and the associated bacterial colonies in the gut necessary to have healthy digestion and clearance. Fiber pills are sold by the million, some are soluble, others are insoluble fibers (we need both)–but most people prefer the soluble because it tastes better. Most people also do not eat insoluble fiber in their diets at all. Prepared foods do not have insoluble fiber in them so one must eat foods that have them–but even in those foods most people spit the fiber out since they cannot be chewed. Yes. That is the whole idea. They cannot be chewed easily and our bodies do not digest them but guess who do: the bacteria you eat in little capsules or in your yogurt all the time. If you don’t eat the insoluble fiber, the bacteria you gobble up goes out starved and you gained nothing only killed a bunch of good bacteria.

So why are we so clueless that we cannot understand the consequences (bad as they are) that follow our actions driven by speed and efficiency rather than health? Because we are always running somewhere but are we getting anywhere?

If one is running all day and eats in the quick, getting a heart attack at an early age, was it worth running into death so fast with supplements? If one is trying to run all day but is throwing up from a migraine as a result of lack of nutrients to the brain, are we achieving anything? Are we really reaching the places we are heading so fast without eating right?

I truly believe that we can reach all of our goals by eating right. Slow down America! Do get to wherever you are going in great health!

 

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Homeopathic Drugs Recalled!

Homeopathic drugs (herbs and supplements) are being recalled for containing real medicine! Please be sure to read!

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About Life

About. Just a picture that captures it all!

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Time Flies (poem)

My thoughts are beautifully expressed in this poem!

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Justina Pelletier: The Case Continues

Worthy reading from a doctor friend of mine for those interested what clueless doctors do and how people get mistreated, misdiagnosed, and then killed.

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Dying Person with Paralyzed Throat given Oral Medication?

Dying Person with Paralyzed Throat given Oral Medication?.

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Dying Person with Paralyzed Throat given Oral Medication?

Are you ready for the next clueless doctor story? It is about my mom that happened today.

I got a call from a person called Miracle at the hospital she is currently–Miracle indeed. She is working in the hospital’s discharge department. She called to talk to me about my mother’s discharge from the hospital. I ask “you mean discharge as into the hands of God?” she says “what? No, a skilled nursing facility”

I say “Miracle, will you please do a miracle and read the records before you call me?” …

A couple of hours pass and I get a call from the palliative care nurse trying to get my mother to not die in the hospital because “we don’t like patients to die here.” I told her “I am very sorry you don’t like it. I don’t like that my mother is dying. It is your hospital’s error so she will die there. I give no authorization for transfer.” After some talk she agreed.

Then she tells me “your mom is receiving only morphine and Valium sublingulally” (meaning under tongue)… so I said “that is great. Now you are causing her great pain since all drugs end up in her lungs; her throat is paralyzed and cannot swallow”… she said “oops“… there.. the saga continues…

Just to let you know that hospital incompetence has no limit. I would not be surprised to get a discharge phone call after my mom is dead.

I am now looking for private autopsy. Amazingly the hospital autopsy person recommended that since, he said, that in the hospital all autopsy is biased for the protection of the doctors… finally a competent person but unfortunately only after death.

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CluelessDoctors Founder Will Head to Challenge as Activist!

I have formed a new group on Facebook  in order to brainstorm about how to get the medical system turned around by sharing medical tragedy stories involving malpractice of course and finding out the best ways to act and help form a way to move toward changing the system successfully. First I would like to tell the goal of the group and then I share a few stories I have recently heard of.

My goals to achieve and pass as law are as follows:

1) In November this year, those of us in California are to vote on a new ballot that raises the malpractice cap from $250k to over $1 million–this increase just simply adjusts for inflation. We need to vote on that to pass so malpractice can become a legal practice in California again.

2) Did you know that all real estate agents, all engineers, all insurance agents, all hair dressers, etc., have to go back every year for certain number of classes or they lose their licenses? Some of them actually have to pass a new test. Don’t you agree that doctors should have such a requirements? I am after enforcing a mandatory annual 40-hour further education with all new treatments and drugs to doctors with a test requirement and if not passed the test, the loss of license follows.

3) Medications that contain anti psychotic drugs that come in hundreds of names must all be labeled with capital letters stating clearly what they are. For example, medications that in any way add, enhance, increase absorption, modify receptors, etc., for serotonin must be labeled SEROTONIN in addition to whatever brand name it carries. If the drug is a Benzodiazepines group drug, they must all be labeled BENZODIAZEPINE so doctors know. I cannot tell you how many doctors told me that Ambient or Lunesta were not benzos but they are… they are what is called Atypical Benzodiazepine Receptor Legands. That is they impersonate benzos and act as though they were–like artificial sweeteners… they call on insulin as if we ate real sugar. In fact Ambient and Lunesta both are hypnotic benzos. You can find the chart with all details summarized in a super good chart on Wikipedia.

Some medical nightmare stories:

A mother had her son with some illness checked in to some hospital where they overdosed him with anti psychotic medications and he promptly died. No lawyer would take on the malpractice–this happened in California–so the mom hired an attorney team, filed a lawsuit and LOST! Now even the insurance companies are after her to pay for their legal expenses.

The second story I heard from my husband who heard it on the radio on his way home. This happened in Boston. A family with a very sick daughter outside of Boston were sent to a specialist who was the only one understanding what to do. They packed their daughter up to an ambulance that was supposed to take the daughter to this location but for some reason–we don’t know why–it stopped at a different location. The doctor there had no clue. He called in the resident psychologist, who is a woman famous for writing a book about how over 50% of kids today are psychos. She said this girl was a psycho and not only that, she now has put a hold on the family for abuse. The daughter is not getting treatment and also the parents are now considered to be suspect of child abuse I believe.

A third story to tell you from a friend who I just befriended and joined forces with. Her daughter, as a small child 10 years ago, hurt her knee in a fall. She took her to the doctor and they sent her home as “nothing.” Her daughter died in sepsis in 2.5 days after that. This was 10 years ago. She has been fighting the crusade alone since then. Now I am joining her.

I am also joining the efforts of the non-profit organization called 4Fate.org who took on the safety of the elderly as their main cause and have helped me by taking my case and filing for me at all the agencies that license hospitals and nursing homes. Slowly my case is moving forward–I am sure it will get stuck since no attorney today will take on a case that has malpractice in it with a child or with an elderly.

Please let us put out heads together and storm out possibilities on how to approach the system. How do I go about fighting for you all? Where do you suggest I start? I had some great ideas about the New York Times–I will be contacting them. I already contacted the OC Register and NBC4 news local investigating teams–these are all on my mother’s case but slowly I will turn this into a state case and/or a national case.

I need your help with more stories and suggestions if you have.

Thank you all! 

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Justina Pelletier – Overview of Mitochondrial Disease | NIND

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