Durable Power of Attorney–Why You Need it And Why You Don’t!

This particular little story is from my own experience and so some of you may have different experiences but this may help anyway. I find it important to note that with our ideal presence of mind, in 2007, my mom, husband and I all set down with our attorney at the time to draw up our wishes for medical treatment and what to do in case if resuscitation is necessary but full recovery is not possible, etc. So we have created our advanced durable power of attorney for each of us, had it signed, sealed, and saved.

Then my mom got ill in February 2014 and every single hospital she went to (4 hospitals) and every single skilled nursing facilities she was sent to (2) had a hard copy of my mothers advanced durable power of attorney given to them with her making me her conservator–that is the responsible party to make decision over every step and every medication. Logical, since I am a medical professional in the area of research. But then I noticed that with the exception of a single skilled nursing facility, the advanced durable power of attorney was completely ignored as if it did not exist.

Doctors prescribed medications for all kinds of illnesses my mom did not have; they did not ask for permission, they pulled various legal RIESE 5150 and then 5250 on her so they could override my advanced durable power of attorney so they can force medications against her and my wishes and push into her whatever medications they wanted –and even restricted any and all communication between doctors and family. In some places meeting the doctor was impossible let alone having a few questions answered.

Of course they completely messed my mother up and she passed away on the 10th of April in 2014.

Now I am not a wuss so when it comes to inquiries and demands, you can hear my voice loud and clear but this was a show stopper for me. I am a medical professional and still I cannot stop clueless actions on the part of doctors and hospitals? How is that possible? Well, I found out how…

I am just now going through the medical records of my mom from each hospital and in one I find on top of the copy of my mom’s advanced durable power of attorney a piece of paper highlighting that my mom does not have an advanced durable power of attorneyThis is why!

You need to know this! You need to know that someone in your family has to be after these “bastards” at every step of the way because they are as clueless as they come! I used the term “bastards” because one may have good intentions but after all if the chicken crossed the road and died, it died… intentions don’t matter. The outcome matters when it comes to medical treatment.

My mother died in the hands of such clueless acts. The only safe place for my mom was a skilled nursing facility where she hated to be since she was plucked in there from the psych ward after the 5250 where they destroyed her mind making her symptoms appear as if she had schizophrenia and Alzheimer’s (which she did not have) but at this place she took no medicines and in 3 days she started to come out of under the affects of all those terrible drugs. She also started to realize that she was in a mental institute. She wanted out of there and she let that be known to everyone. She kept on saying that she would rather die than stay here. And so she was evaluated by two psychologists there, both clearing her from mental disorders, only to be killed by a clueless doctor in the hospital she went for treatment of her heart, who… you guessed it… had ignored not only the advanced durable power of attorney but also the allergy band on my mother’s arm for serotonin.

The medicine the doctor gave her was Namenda, a drug in the serotonergic/dopanergic family that is an antagonist. Antagonist implies, as the name states “make it more excitable” and so what it does it actually increases the serotonin and dopamine receptors’ ability to accept more serotonin… hence increasing the substance my  mother was allergic to. One of the side effects of this drug listed among the side effects is TIA (“Nervous system side effects have included dizziness (7%) and headache (6%). Transient ischemic attack,… “, which is a stroke that lasts for a short time. In fact, my mom got one but the clot hit at the wrong place and her throat got paralyzed, never to be resolved so the TIA was really a full blown stroke. She died from the clueless medical system.

She also died from a clueless doctor whom I asked after I was finally able to corner at the ICU if she knew that my mom had advanced durable power of attorney. She said no. I also asked if she knew my mother was allergic to serotonin. She said “well the pharmacy catches interactions..” I said no.. no interaction. One drug that you prescribed, Namenda, that increases serotonin in the brain and she is allergic to serotonin. She first told me it was not serotonin then I pulled up on the internet on my phone and showed her that it is so then she gave me a big discussion “well you know it is serotonergic/dopanergic.. blah blah blah..” I asked her if she knew she was actually talking to a neuroscientist researcher… I also asked if she knew what dopamine and serotonin were and what they were used for the brain.. she said “no“…

I did tell her to go back to school!

Yes! Sometimes you just need to act like a total barbaric to get through to doctors, hospitals, and pharmacies to save the life of your loved ones. I failed but I hope to help by changing the system as much as I can. Please you do your share and create an advanced durable power of attorney and put it under every single doctor’s nose!



About Angela A Stanton, Ph.D.

Angela A Stanton, PhD, is a Neuroeconomist focusing on chronic pain--migraine in particular--physiology, electrolyte homeostasis, nutrition, and genetics. She lives in Southern California. Her current research is focused on migraine cause, prevention, and treatment without the use of medicine. As a forever migraineur from childhood, her discovery was helped by experimenting on herself. She found the cause of migraine to be at the ionic level, associated with disruption of the electrolyte homeostasis, resulting from genetic variations of all voltage dependent channels, gates, and pumps (chanelopathy) that modulate electrolyte mineral density and voltage in the brain. In addition, insulin and glucose transporters, and several other variants, such as MTHFR variants of B vitamin methylation process and many others are different in the case of a migraineur from the general population. Migraineurs are glucose sensitive (carbohydrate intolerant) and should avoid eating carbs as much as possible. She is working on her hypothesis that migraine is a metabolic disease. As a result of the success of the first edition of her book and her helping over 5000 migraineurs successfully prevent their migraines world wide, all ages and both genders, and all types of migraines, she published the 2nd (extended) edition of her migraine book "Fighting The Migraine Epidemic: Complete Guide: How To Treat & Prevent Migraines Without Medications". The 2nd edition is the “holy grail” of migraine cause, development, and prevention, incorporating all there is to know. It includes a long section for medical and research professionals. The book is full of academic citations (over 800) to authenticate the statements she makes to make it easy to follow up by those interested and to spark further research interest. It is a "Complete Guide", published on September 29, 2017. Dr. Stanton received her BSc at UCLA in Mathematics, MBA at UCR, MS in Management Science and Engineering at Stanford University, PhD in Economics with dissertation in neuroscience (culminating in Neuroeconomics) at Claremont Graduate University, fMRI certification at Harvard University Medical School at the Martinos Center for Neuroimaging for experimenting with neurotransmitters on human volunteers, certification in LCHF/ketogenic diet from NN (Nutrition Network), certification in physiology (UPEN via Coursea), Nutrition (Harvard Shool of Public Health) and functional medicine studies. Dr. Stanton is an avid sports fan, currently power weight lifting and kickboxing. For relaxation (yeah.. about a half minute each day), she paints and photographs and loves to spend time with her family of husband of 45 years, 2 sons and their wives, and 2 granddaughters. Follow her on Twitter at: @MigraineBook, LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/angelaastantonphd/ and facebook at https://www.facebook.com/DrAngelaAStanton/
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4 Responses to Durable Power of Attorney–Why You Need it And Why You Don’t!

  1. Roald Michel says:

    Carry one, soldier 😉

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Roald Michel says:

    Ah I see, barbarians are less fine tuned than civilized hypocrites. More power to them.

    Liked by 1 person

    • lol, apparently so! What can I say. Hey Roald I had my first victory!!! The skilled nursing home licensing agencies investigated one of the homes my mom was mistreated at and found many irregularities and gave them 1 month to fix them all if they want to keep their license. They also by accident bumped into a doctor statement that did not line up with mine.. so they called me and asked what happened and so we caught the psychiatrist lying! On top of it, he does not seem to have a license eitehr.. guess what is going to happen next: he was using the license of the doctor for whose name under he worked.. I think the world may just have 2 doctors less soon… 🙂 I am getting little step by step… I will get them all! 🙂 But still no computer.. 2 more weeks before I can return to “life” as I know it… Hope you are well!


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